25 October - Mum and the Feminine

The 5 Doors. Family constellations in harmony with the nervous system

The 5 Doors. Family constellations in harmony with the nervous system, with Silvia Virgulti.

5 meetings, offered as a path or attended individually, dedicated to the 5 inner doors we are called to open in order to live a life in which we feel we are ourselves, fully, without burdens that are not ours.

It makes a difference whether mum and dad wanted us or whether we came along “by mistake” (ever felt worthless?).
It makes a difference whether our great-grandfather went to war or not (there are too many possible consequences to sum them up in one sentence).
It makes a difference whether our grandmother married a man she loved or not (the dynamics we live as a couple began with our female ancestors).

It is as if our ancestors had lived inside an enclosure – this is how you love, how you work, how you earn – and we believed – unconsciously – that we had to stop there.

Constellations in harmony with the nervous system bring that invisible enclosure to light, and help us to go beyond it.

To do this, the tool of classic Family Constellations is used: Silvia guides each person to experience them by listening to their own body and to the signals of the nervous system, of the survival strategies they have put in place throughout their life. This is what makes possible a deep change that respects the person.

Silvia Virgulti

Dr Stephen Porges was the first to formulate the Polyvagal Theory, “the transformative power of feeling safe”: no change – whether through constellations or by other means – is possible if our nervous system does not feel safe. Silvia’s work is at the service of this.

For over 10 years she has been accompanying people on their journey of personal and spiritual growth, with the tools of Family Constellations and Esoteric Psychology.

She graduated in Linguistics from the University of Vienna and trained in Systemic Constellations and body-based trauma resolution with Dr Marco Massignan and the researcher Janine van der Merwe, and in Esoteric Psychology with Dr Giorgia Sitta. She has been a university lecturer and a communications consultant for the Chamber of Deputies, the Senate and other institutions.

She is guided by a deep desire to contribute to people’s awareness and fulfilment, in harmony with their talents and with Life. She draws inspiration from Masters such as Carl Gustav Jung, whose words she loves to recall: “The world’s problems have their origin in the individual. The man who is at peace with himself makes his contribution to the good of the universe”, and from the American psychotherapist Deb Dana, whose guiding star is “changing the world, one nervous system at a time”.